My assignment whilst he was away that weekend.
To be completed by reading it out to him 3 times, over his knee, in my school girl outfit; white cotton panties pulled up between my bottom cheeks, being spanked.
“Why Does My Dominant Punish me?
-My Dominant punishes me to help me be the best sub I can be to him. He does it to train/re-train me, in a way which is correct, or, desirable to him.
-Punishment helps me to develop to the highest potential and to achieve my Dom’s high standards for me.
The Benefits to me?
-Pleasing my Dominant means he will please me in return, so by learning through training and/or punishment we will both benefit.
-Through punishment and aftercare, I can learn to trust and respect my Dominant more and more and vice versa.
-My Dominant will give me experiences and pleasure I have not had before.
Methods to be used?
-1 – Caning (or the least pleasurable method to the sub)
2- Withdrawal of Dominant and sub duties for a set period of time.
3 – Time out sessions – e.g tied and holding a coin to a wall with my nose.
What would happen without punishment?
-I would not learn best, how to please my Dominant and as a result no pleasure would be given to me.
-Without pleasure/punishment, no closeness or intimacy could develop correctly, and as such the bond and trust would not be there.
-The pleasure could not be experienced without the pain”
I see naivety and inexperience in those words now – but I keep it.
It reminds me of how we, (and I), started out on this path.