6 thoughts on “Playing with her…

  1. Tanya says:

    I am enjoying your blog. I am glad I found it. I had fallen away from my natural tendency to be submissive, over the last few years. Recently I started menopause as well. I felt a bit lost. I read the 50 Shades books and that helped to remind me what I was missing. Now I am finding my way back. I have been in a long term relationship, 12 years. He introduced me to this lifestyle. He has been patient with me. He has been the best really.
    Anyway reading your blog just helps me even more. Thank you.

      1. Tanya says:

        I did find your Facebook page, as well as your twitter. I am following both. I have never actual spoken to other submissives before. I don’t know any where I live. It is such a taboo thing. The love of my life likes to keep our lifestyle a special secret for the two of us. Naturally our families and friends are not aware of what we love to do. He is very private. I suppose this is typical for most. I can’t help but want to share how wonderful and freeing it is for me to be what I am. Indulging in every fantasy that we have is amazing! I don’t understand how other people do not see this.

        Now that my health issues and hormones are normal again, as I mentioned earlier, I am fully embracing my sub self. And can fully enjoy and please him as was meant to be. Your stories are great fuel for the fire inside.

        Thank you for letting me share my thoughts and have an outlet. It’s not easy keeping this kind of joy to myself.

      2. damagedprincess says:

        Tanya – I’m here for all the secret subs 🙂 I have been one and am one myself…but when you can be all you are with the one person it genuinely matters with, is it really a secret? I love to connect with my fellow subs….email me anytime if you have something you want to discuss or talk through – sometimes you can’t talk to your Sir, somtimes your friends or family can’t help, only a fellow sub can understand – and thank you for reading, my blogs are for you girls/subs xx

  2. Tanya says:

    Is there ever a time when you are not in your sub head space? Sir and me don’t have a 24/7 relationship, at least I don’t believe so, it seems almost that way. We have lived together for roughly 10 years. I feel like I am always, even when I’m away from him that I am in my sub head space. He does not impose this on me. It just happens. It always has been this way with him. Since we met.
    Is it always like that? He is the first Sir I’ve had and only one.

    1. damagedprincess says:

      Hi Tanya
      Thanks for your question.
      I find when you are heavily caught up in a D/s relationship, you can go great lengths of time not even seeing them, yet remaining in sub head. So yes, if you are living together then it sounds about right that you would be constantly in a state of submission. Of course life sometimes gets in the way: bills need paying, jobs need doing, little stresses and niggles happen…and these may take you away from sub head for a little while, but ultimately all of life’s little issues will be dealt with primarily from a sub based state when you live or spend the majority of your time with Sir. That’s what I found to be true at least x

      Come find True Sub on the facebook community – I love hearing from other subs on there: https://www.facebook.com/truediaryofasubmissive?ref=hl


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